Realised some of my friends are facing r'ship problems...
Problems that always revolved around people ...
Coz people tend to think and expectation varies from one to another.
When is the right time to step into a r'ship?
when is the right time to end a r'ship?
ans to the first qn, i dont know for now. i had not dare to try in it.
but ans to the 2nd qn, i feel i know and able to ans it.
Coz I had tried ending a r'ship even though i loved him very much.
Yes, the word i used is "love", not "like" or whatever.
And note, "used" as in, past tense, its the past and its over. thus no longer love. Hee...
Reason for ending?
I can no longer tolerated how I'm being treated, and verbally abused for things I had not done and for being someone that I'm not.
And that fact that I know he will not change, never going to change how he treat me.
And how do I conclude in ending the r'ship?
When I feel so so tired and the mere thought of giving the r'ship, brought me relieved.
I literally felt relieved when I ended it.
Well, others may see it as running away from problems. but to me, its not.
Perhaps, things are never meant to be in the first place.
I had tried, I really tried.
People who know abt this will know.
I tried too hard, too much on a wrong person.
Well, at least, I can account to myself. That's all that matter, right?
Well, I dont know why I'm bloggin all these.
Perhaps, to help my friends to determine, how to conclude a end or what leads to the end?
Get it right, I'm not asking my friends to end it... I dont break up a r'ship.
I just be there, to lend a listening ear to whoever that needs me.
Of course, different people experience different things.
Mine is like this, doest mean others as well.
Will blog more later on. =)
Problems that always revolved around people ...
Coz people tend to think and expectation varies from one to another.
When is the right time to step into a r'ship?
when is the right time to end a r'ship?
ans to the first qn, i dont know for now. i had not dare to try in it.
but ans to the 2nd qn, i feel i know and able to ans it.
Coz I had tried ending a r'ship even though i loved him very much.
Yes, the word i used is "love", not "like" or whatever.
And note, "used" as in, past tense, its the past and its over. thus no longer love. Hee...
Reason for ending?
I can no longer tolerated how I'm being treated, and verbally abused for things I had not done and for being someone that I'm not.
And that fact that I know he will not change, never going to change how he treat me.
And how do I conclude in ending the r'ship?
When I feel so so tired and the mere thought of giving the r'ship, brought me relieved.
I literally felt relieved when I ended it.
Well, others may see it as running away from problems. but to me, its not.
Perhaps, things are never meant to be in the first place.
I had tried, I really tried.
People who know abt this will know.
I tried too hard, too much on a wrong person.
Well, at least, I can account to myself. That's all that matter, right?
Well, I dont know why I'm bloggin all these.
Perhaps, to help my friends to determine, how to conclude a end or what leads to the end?
Get it right, I'm not asking my friends to end it... I dont break up a r'ship.
I just be there, to lend a listening ear to whoever that needs me.
Of course, different people experience different things.
Mine is like this, doest mean others as well.
Will blog more later on. =)
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