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Hmm.. was reading some postings in flowerpod.

Come across this topic that ask what is the reason that your SO fall in love with you.

Realise most reply as "He find me pretty.. blah blah blah..."

Hmm.. without a doubt, the 1st impression is always physically.
But ... that couldnt be the main reason why fall in love with right?

I'm quite skeptical when people tell me that.
I would so much prefer that people tell me they like me for who i'm, for my character, rather than i'm pretty or sweet or cute.
I'm not a superficial person. Being pretty doesnt mean much to me.

Same thing, a guy with looks dont matter to me either. Instead, I'm more wary of lor.
*Well known that the more good-lookin a guy is, the more flirt he is... - Okay, i'm discriminatinh against guys again. =p*

am i asking too much?
Shld I just accept the way nature is...


Perhaps, I shld bother how things progressed and not how things get started?
Perhaps ba ...

And ya.. I cant stand guys that want to go after you when they just got to know you like.. a few hrs?
It seems so desperate. =p

And I'm definitely not one who believed in "Love At First Sight" lor.
MAybe more of 1st good impression thus want to get to know more?
But gettin to know more also no need to be too kan cheong ba.

Guess I dont like the fact people might think I'm desperate to get into a r'ship
coz I agreed to get into a r'ship with someone who is desperate?
Well .... Thinking too muchie as usual, i mean myself, of course.
Haha...

Think my thinking is abit cranked up.
I prefer guys to treat me normally, just like friends.
Then later to fall for me for who I am, not b'coz i look cute/sweet/pretty or watsoever.

Is all these too hard to ask for?
Or am I asking too much?
Haaa ....

so, can all of you tell me , if i'm right or I simply think too much ? ;)