Month end approaching, means busy period for me.
And this particular week, even though there's a long weekend coming soon, still particularly long for me.
Reason?
I had to go school thrice this week, mainly Mons, Thurs and Fri.
How sianz can that be?
Worse is, Thurs and Fri are both Marketing lor. =(
One word, boring.
Well, perhaps its just the mindset.
Perhaps, if I force myself to think it as interesting, it might be. Might.
Heard something from a friend lately, or rather, yesterday to be exact.
Not a very good piece of news though.
Though, how one measures good and bad, is up to individual.
Something to ponder abt. *Yesss... again, well, I'm Jasmine ma. Jasmine is forever emotional. ;) *
How strong is a relationship?
What do you used to measure how strong it is?
Time, Love, Tolerance or ?
Time is definitely not a good measurement tool to be used.
Time doesnt show or prove anything.
In fact, Time mislead/confuse people, in some sense.
Perhaps, for some, the longer one is in the relationship, the more you are used to, in the relationship.
Even if there's no love, one might be reluntant to leave the relationship, as one feels the time spent is too wasted to forego just like that.
Thus one might try, and try, and try and not knowing where it might lead to, if, it does lead somewhere, where for some, you might just stay stagnant.
Of course, there's love in long long relationship, just that some might get blinded by the fact of bordom in the relationship.
As its hard to re-introduce fire into a relationship that has been around for so long, so long.
Of course, depends on one's mentality and what one wants.
As for Love, Love is important in a relationship, but its not the only thing in the r'ship.
Just on love alone, cannot survive.
The relationship wont work.
I had tried before and failed... badly ....
Tolerance towards one another is equally important.
If there's love but no tolerance, the relationship wont be able to last.
I had been there before and out of it.
I had plenty of tolerance, but sadly, both parties must have as well.
Relationship with your SO is not just that..
Also relationship with each other's friends and family is important too.
Haha...Tired of writing. Shall continue later.
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